The Art of Letting Go

LOVING SOMEONE is such a nice feeling and being loved makes you feel ecstatic. The hardest part of it all, however, is letting go. People say that it is so hard to form a good and stable relationship but it would take seconds just to break it.

Learning how to say goodbye without the guilt and the hurt is the most difficult path a person could ever pass through. It is just like having two roads that you need to trek--one in blue, being the less traveled--and the other in red, being the most traveled road for lovers and couples.

I took the long red road and found out how lucky I am to meet few good men in my life. But then I realized that it was then a time for me to live on my own and celebrate the rest of my life before really looking for the right one. I want to take the blue road: the less traveled road, the road where drifted souls would want to pass through. It has proven to be a good road after all and it made a difference in my life.

Now that I have found the guy I would want to grow old with, the lesson I got from letting go made me a person with sense of self-worth, a person ready to love again and make another person feel loved.

Breaking off is hard but would it teach you to start a new life. The wound that stays after calling it quits would heal in time though it would leave a scar just to remind you of how strong you are to withstand any pressures of challenge in loving somebody.

Learn to let go and to break free for there you would realize how powerful love is. As they say, you don’t have to choose love because love itself would choose you

--By Adrienne